From Harper's Weekly, published Jan 14, 1860

On Their Own Terms

This article explores how older adults often shield their emotional struggles due to unique fears, like loss of identity. It argues that building trust and easing loneliness requires setting aside our own assumptions and listening carefully to what they are willing to discuss, meeting them on their own terms.
2 Friends engaged in a conversation over coffee

Beyond “Uh-huh”: The Power of Real Listening

The author describes a friend who endlessly vents without resolution. Passive listening didn't help. The article introduces "reflective listening" – actively showing you hear someone by mirroring their words and emotions. Often, people just want to feel understood, and this technique can break complaint cycles and build better connections. Setting listening boundaries is also key.