Why does caregiving feel so heavy?

  • It often adds to an already full life of work and family.
  • You may be the only one handling appointments and decisions.
  • Watching a parent decline is its own kind of grief.

8 ways to lighten the load

  • Make a list of tasks and ask family to take specific ones.
  • Contact your local Area Agency on Aging for services.
  • Look into respite care so you can take breaks.
  • Schedule time for yourself and protect it.
  • Join a caregiver support group.
  • Set up regular social contact for your parent with others.
  • Keep medical info organized in one place.
  • Watch for burnout: exhaustion, irritability, or getting sick often.

Frequently asked questions

What is caregiver burnout?

It is physical and emotional exhaustion from caregiving. Signs include fatigue, irritability, and withdrawing from others.

How can I help my aging parent feel less lonely?

Regular visits and calls, community programs, and scheduled conversations with others all help.